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Guest Blogger GTG:

As Nattie points out, I don’t think waste mgt. employees, mail carriers, etc. expect tips, but I’m sure it’s appreciated. Tips don’t necessarily have to be a monetary gift. You could give your service provider a batch of homemade cookies, or, as Shoo is creatively doing, gift certificates…$5 goes a long way at Hardees. Christmas is supposed to be a time where you show others that you appreciate them by giving. Giving doesn’t have to come in the form of anything more than a card. Really, the old saying, “It’s the thought that counts,” is still applicable today. (Although you’re not getting out of giving me something sparkly for Christmas, Shoo. You need more than a thought.)

As a service employee (a different kind of service, I realize), I don’t expect presents from my students, but I tried this year to give each one some sort of Christmas cheer…a card, a cookie, a piece of candy. I didn’t expect anything in return; I just wanted them to know that I’m thinking about them this holiday season. I also gave each of the other English teachers (and a couple other teachers I’m close to) a holiday card. Again, just wanted to let them know I appreciate their support and hope they have a happy holiday. And again, I don’t expect anything in return.

Did I appreciate those holiday cards and gifts I received from my students? Of course. I love that they actually thought about me as they were getting ready for Christmas. I really love that they appreciate me and what I do enough to recognize that with a small gift. I got anywhere from a very nice picture frame with a photo of me and Buddy, to a coffee mug with candy in it, to an interesting earring holder, and a smattering of cards. None of them are more or less important to me because it’s the thought that counts.

You can choose to recognize your service employees with gifts or cards, or you can not. It’s obviously up to you. But why question their motives? Couldn’t they possibly just want to spread Christmas cheer? To let you know, “Hey, have a good holiday”? Maybe I’m just naive…